We are who we are!

I am super (too?) curious at times.

I used to study Astrology, learned Tarot, had long chats with Chinese fortune tellers during my late UG to Sosc/ Humanities time...

Due to the long time span of our marriage project (across years), we thought it might be good to have some external advices to pick the dates of critical milestones for us...

It's been a while I haven't been in touch with those "mysterious" topics, until last month we met Master Koo (http://www.komanhei.com/) for "picking good days" or 擇吉 in Chinese.

Master Koo is indeed my mommy's old friend. She has become a popular fortune teller on TV and radio broadcast in recent years. It was like meeting a "long time no see" auntie and we received not only a number of good days but blessings & happiness from her. So warm!

At the end, Master Koo asked if I had any question for her. I briefly asked "is Jin the right guy to marry ?" (hehe...sorry Jin, it was in Cantonese..haha) Master Koo started to tell....

- We are in fact a loving couple, we value each other. We will be fine.
- Points to remind: Jin is always stubborn and Carol is always sensitive/ emotional. We have to overcome these weakness in our characters for a better future.
- Japan is a suitable place for me to live. I'd better be a working lady (than housewife) as I will gain more satisfaction from my profession.
- I need to give birth soon, for physical constraints that I have.

To our big surprise, Master Koo was even able to tell our past, the way we grew up, our family, and past relationship, etc...

I was so amazed at her power and recommended her to some of my close friends.

The feedback I received from my friends was- she is the best fortune teller that they have ever met! For her honesty and frankness, true feedback was received that woke my friends up and move forward to a better direction.

My friend shared so much details of the fortune telling...which I started to feel uncomfortable. Too much details, so realistic, as if we were players on the chess board. Everything is desintinated.

This could be true but I still want to live my life independently, with our own efforts. I told myself & to Jin that I won't seek advice from the Master. My friend echoed. She said "You already have an enviable relationship! It is one of the ideals that most girls have been dream of! Why bother?!"

Yes, let's keep our relationship always an ideal one and not to be affected by other opinions...!!!