11 March 2008

The magic of make-up *o*

One more item checked!

I still remember how enthusiastic Erica was when she learnt of my need for bridal make-up - quickly picked up her mobile phone and called Helen, her stylist for the big day!

I have full confidence in Helen as Erica looked soooo pretty pretty that day, almost perfect!!! (Jin agreed, too!)

Trial make-up done last Sunday. (Jin was so interested and he watched me doing the make-up from MSN video..haha)


Prior to the meeting, I had been flipping over magazines to get an idea of bridal hair style. Not quite sure which one fits me well...because I have a difficult facial outline and the bottomline is...I never think I look good in physical terms.

I could not tell Helen what exactly I want her to do on my hair/face, the only message I conveyed was "I want a basic/simple and sweet look".

She agreed that I look good in pink, so the make up was a light one with pink eye shadow and cheeks.

Helen is defintely a magician! She turned my eyes into big big round eyes...and highlighted my facial features.

Wao...I am like a different person. Can my friends recognise me on the registration day?

(hehe...I want to keep a surprise on THAT day. No close up/ direct pictures for the moment...=P)

Jin was very serious looking at my make-up and Helen said "how sweet! I never saw a groom who is so caring/serious in the girl's make-up"...hehe

Jin said he really liked the style. hehe, 1 more step closer to become a pretty bride of Jin.

09 March 2008

One month past...

It has been one month since we officially started our commitment of life: Engagement Proposal. This past thirty some days had been one of the busiest time of our lives. However much rambled each day was, we both have a common goal which focuses our attention, mentality, spirituality, and integrity... Our Marriage Project.

One of the project item was creating this blog. Others, which we slowly share to our friends through this blog; all take much time, efforts, research, discussion, think-together, agreement, disagreement, tolerance, acceptance, and finally confirmation. Each step we made has been very time consuming, but very fulfilling. Each topic we discuss make ourselves closer, and this is a good thing since we get to know each others' tone, value, thoughts, interest, focal point, careabouts..... Having these discussions is very valuable for us. This is the chance we decided to take in order to accomplish a common goal, but at the same time learn each other as a side effect.

Today, we had another random conversation and we felt it is very important to "realise". The busy days keep us focused into the details and arrangements, and tend to take for granted of lots of things. This busy-ness takes our focus from the realisation of both of ourselve's existence and preciousness. However, the realising that all of what we do is because we exists, makes ourselves precious and valuable. Without this "realisation", everything becomes so "ordinary" and our actions are taken for granted. This is a pithole of a longlasting happy relationship...

So, we both agreed to "realise" from time to time; and take a timeout from our busy busy daily lives and "realise" in ourselves. We both felt good about this.

We have a long life ahead of us, but we feel these discussions are making a very solid foundation of whatever we build on top of it. We feel good to have discussed about this "realisation".

07 March 2008

FITo! FIGHTo!

I am known for being very fond of good food (in fact Jin, too!). One fortunate teller even said I have a tie/fate/blessing to good food throughout my life...haha (brought by Jin?)

I always think..people who like to eat is happier, simply because the source of happiness is so easily available and 3 times a day! There is a multiple effect if your partner also likes good food! (indeed, we both gained weight since we have started dating...)

Obviously, I have difficulty controlling my input....><


But I want to look better (slimmer) for the BIG DAYS to come! Yes..it's a plural and the interval between the registration & wedding parties drags on for a year...it's tough...I need to lose weight & sustain over time...

There is one keyword, one & only one - BURN! Burn burn the fat! Controlling the OUTPUT!!!

As many of you already know, the only sports I do is swimming. However, chlorine hurts. I don't want to end up having "wire" hair & rough skin...and the swimming pool at my place (outdoor) closes in winter..hmmm.

Believe it or not, I started doing GYM! A new club house has opened recently at my place, sooo convenient! And I am disciplined to go there in average 3 times a week!!!

With the hard work (my legs sored for the first few days), I am now able to offset all calories I gained from all the "Happy for you!" & "announcement" gatherings. (while keeping the enjoyment of all get-togethers) Yeah yeah!

These are the evidence!!!! (hehe..receipts for each entry to the gym gym)


Besides, Jin said, all matters are "OUR" matters - so...he wants to share the pain I have for the hard work...including this:

I asked Jin what kind of exercise I can do to in order to get my arms slim slim...He researched online and found the above exercise - arms at the back and shaking like "bye-bye". We are doing it together for 1 min per day...hahhaha

Last week I went with Stuare & Sandy to check yoga places but couldn't find any good ones yet. Any recommendation?

hehe.it's all about fitness!! add oil add oil!!

06 March 2008

Delight

Today is a great day.

The alarm clock kept yelling for unknown minutes...when I opened my eyes, two catties were looking at me, annoyed - obviously the alarm was no music to them...

What a deeep deeep sleep! I forgot when was the last time I felt so content with a good quality sleep. It was a hibernation. Like the loong sleep after exhaustion of a 72-hour O'camp.

Exhaustion? Indeed. It was such a relief..to the accumulated worries. Trying so hard to get a good dress and hope deminished as time goes by.

Checking this blog becomes the first thing I do in the morning. Jin always writes me something in the mid-night, it's like opening a gift box to see what's the " surprise for today " =))

Jin's wrote a thanks-giving note for today , for the dear friends around me - Jin knows how much I value my friends and he dearly feels thankful for everybody's support during his "absence"... I am so blessed to have a partner with a merci heart!

05 March 2008

Wedding dress confirmed!

Ahhhhhh...finally!!!

Starting from Mar 1, I keep looking for wedding dress almost every another day.
Thanks Stuare + sister & Sandy, for the search in TST again on March 2; with Mavis the other day in Central & Erica for today!!!!

The more shops I went, the more frustration I had. Bad experience, over budget, time is running out...stress level went all the way up and thanks Jin for his comfort & tolerance...><

I was so desperated to a point that I also checked Shanghai air ticket...just 1 step away from going to Suzhou for tailor-made dress. (even though we will still go and make it in May...).

Today is the watershed. HK rental vs SH purchase.

The answer is .....HK rental!

In fact we only checked 1 shop today - Anovia, the sister shop of 浪漫一生 (my photo shooting company). It is a new shop, opened only for 2 months, new dresses & fashionable.

Staff were nice I would say but the bargaining process was not easy - probably the shop is just too new and they have yet been able to cover the cost...? Anyway, we found a gorgeous dress, priced at HKD 3,380 and made it a deal at HKD 2,000. Thanks so much for Erica's support...I did insist this time. (I thought we were not tooo aggressive but Jin said it's indeed...ha..ha..)

All in all, I am happy with Anovia and the dress I chose.

Want to take a look of the dress? hehe..I want to keep it a surprise on Apr 27 - I won't post it here =p

Erica is really a good friend of mine. She was soo busy at work but still spared the time with me. We both like rice noodle (河粉) a lot but for my diet, she accompanied me eating 米粉...no cold drinks, too. hahahaha, although they were just small things but that meant a lot! (Jin said Erica is a good mentor for me on this marriage project..hahaha)

Thanks again Erica!

02 March 2008

Kimono rental store reserved.

The whole story started when we were looking at the photo shooting agent... The typical wedding photo shooting takes place in HK, TW, ... but the recent trend is in JP and SE Asia, and even EU. Since I being a Japanese, would be both convenient for me and is also good for Carol to shoot under the cherry blossoms (櫻), we decided to go with an agent - 浪漫一生 - who had gave us a pretty good deal for shooting pictures in 奈良. Carol gave a good idea, "It'd be goodo if I can dress in Japanese Kimono n shoot under the trees..."

Well, ... a good idea became a desire for both of us. She too started wanting to wear the Kimono, and I also want Carol to take the Kimono pictures and be included in our album.

So, the search for Kimono place started from searching "where I can find a Kimono rental stores around the 奈良 area...". The main problem I had was that I hadn't been to 奈良 before. Thus,
I don't know how many stores are available around the city, since I had no idea what the city has around. Secondly, I did not know how much the Kimono rental would cost... So, having Internet as my main source of information, I started searching on the web over and over and over and over again.

I do not know how many sites I had looked over... Using Google, Yahoo J!, goo.ne.jp as the main portal, I think I had searched over 300 links of the terms 奈良 振袖 レンタル etc... I recall finding over several stores, but most of them are extremely expensive... Even taking the average, the typical ones are from 80,000JPY just for Carol's furisode (振袖**). However, just by having the 振袖 is not enough, since she cannot wear it herself. Helping Carol wear the Kimono, called ki-tsuke (着付け) is a requirement, and this can be done typically with the Kimono rental, or a Japanese hair salon can also do so. Next, during the 着付け, the Kimono itself requires all sorts of accessories. The Kimono belt, called obi (帯) requires strings to hold itself. This is called obi-dome (帯止め), other small accessories called komono (小物) is needed, as the Kimono is worn with all of these small accessories. Furthermore, Kimono requires a special hair arrangement (ヘアーアレンジ), along with hair accessories (髪飾り). Then, small prop to accompany with the kimono, like the bag. Finally, Japanese socks and sandals for the Kimono - ta-bi (足袋) and zo-ri (草履). All of these as a total, would cost over 150,000JPY - 250,000JPY.

By the way, since we need to take pictures of BOTH OF US, it's not only Carol who needs to wear Kimono. I also need one, so I also looked for my Kimono, called mon-tsuki-hakama (紋付袴). Men's Kimono is a lot more simple, and I only need ta-bi and zo-ri to accompany the Kimono. Even such, mine is still around 100,000JPY.

Just as an information, it takes typically 1hr - 2.5hrs for lady to wear a Kimono and set the hair.
However, men only take 15min... mmm, ...

Well, in all sense, lady's fashion costs more time and money... Thus, a "dress" always has an implication of feminine focus... So, it's an important mission for me to search for the "best" Kimono for our best memory. My mission starts at my desk.....

Just as an archive of sites searched, here are some sites in consideration....
http://takazen.jp/fct/leah/index.html
http://www.kirara-n.com/frs/20hkm.html
http://www.watabe-wedding.co.jp/dress/list_waso.html
http://www.premiere-grp.com/s03_guidance/longsleeved/index.php
http://www.premiere-grp.com/s03_guidance/longsleeved/index.php?page=3
http://www.a-steady.com/comming_of_age/furisode/index.html
http://www.c-claire.jp/dress/gallery.html?mode=uchikake
http://www.recycle-kimono.jp/rental/
http://www.kyo-roman.com/
http://www.japankimononet.com/new/01/index.html
**Aside: I even found a parody of Yahoo called Wahoo, named because the Japanese character "和風" is pronounced this way: http://www.wahoo.info/

All in all, there has been lots and lots and lots of good Kimono. However, most of them were out of our reach at this time (if the time were to be a bit later on, then we could have afforded more budget in this project), thus we had to balance out the budget amongst all of what we needed to do. Hence, it was our decision to make a reasonable price range that we can be satisfied of.

So, long story made short, we decided to go with one store which takes recycled Kimono from very authentic and well known places. Their philosophy is that through their own connection, they were able to get once a very precious and costly Kimono at a low low price. So, they have a stock of very precious Kimono, however they had no use in the stores, since they were just sitting in the warehouse. They take these Kimono, arrange them, and make them affordable for us at a low price so that we can "enjoy wearing Kimono". Their price range - below 100,000JPY for both of our Kimono, with everything but ta-bi included - is reasonable as well as the quality of the Kimono were acceptable for us. The affordability and the location of the store (being just several minutes from the hotel we will be staying) also made our decision (although we had to discuss over and over and over again, asking the store to provide lots of information so that we can make this decision).

Here it is, the "reserved" furisode at this time.





They will be providing us with further update if any new stocks are available. Since March is the graduation season for Japan, there may be lots of newer design kimono's ready... We just have to cross our fingers.


**Furisode (振袖) is a Kimono which the sleeves drape down to the toes. This type of Kimono is a sign of pre-married lady often is worn on a special day. This is typically used nowadays for Graduation ceremony, Coming of age day (成人式), for friend's wedding, or for photo-shooting for wedding arrangement by parents called "omiai" (お見合い).

01 March 2008

Dress dress...stress

I thought I could keep the registration day simple...
I thought I would be satisfied with a plain dress like this --> (Goddess long dress from JCrew)

Well...obviously, I underestimated my desire to become a pretty bride (pride?)of Jin.

The story begins with the voucher I purchased at the wedding expo in Feb from 藏愛婚紗 for Jin's rental suit for the registration day. I went to the showroom to check out the suits today...and.... I FOUND KAWAII DRESSES!!!!

The staff was really nice, in the enojoyable 2 hours, I checked out many dresses and suits & looked at the wedding photo albums & package.

藏愛婚紗 is so proud of their dresses, they design them, they hand-make them. They use crystal instead of just shinny flakes you could buy from any stationery shop...the lace was of high class quality, too.

These are the 2 dresses that I really really like:
1) A shinny white dress with Austrian crystals on it..."J class" dress that costs HKD 3,000. (they offer me a discount at HKD 2,4xx.

2) A cute & sweet light pink dress...look at the details...so nice...it's a "K class" dress that costs HKD 5,000!!! *o* offer to me at HKD 4,000.


(sorry Jin...I didn't take any pictures of the men's...despite it was the primary purpose for the visit today...=P)

I spent another hour chatting with the staff for photo shooting in Taiwan...they were so patient & friendly and I was convinced that 藏愛 provides the premium of goodo dresses and supreme make-up.

The 高雄 plan seems to be something for us...studio, Greek style blue & white houses, flower sea, forrest & lake...the manager offers me HKD 9,888 [official price at HKD 11,288] for 30 pics in larger album size + upgraded (larger size) paint photo + tiny photo album (3R size) for 20 pics + thank you card x 100 + assessories, etc. Price exclusive of hotel & air ticket.

Well..still more expensive than 法國巨星 as I explored at wedding expo... put it aside for the moment first...

We then went to a few more shops, mainly HK's. The staff at 現代經典 was patient & helpful but their wedding dresses were not as good as 藏愛, not cheap, too. Thanks to Stuare's help, I also checked a shop recommended by her sis but unfortunately couldn't find anything.

Others are not worth mentioning...Ah, there was 1 cheating shop (黑店) that I need to bring your attention - "La Mariage". They had really nice dresses, European style, very classy. However, I was forced to pay HKD 300 after I tried on the dress (which I was not told before hand)!! It was totally @#$#@^%$& !!!!!! Anyway, we was able to leave the shop without paying a cent.

This unhappy experience drew an end to today's wedding dress window shopping day....SO TIRED.

My companion today is Kate - an always excited & curious colleague. Thank you so much for Kate's advice all along, her support & caring. Hope it was a good exposure for Kate & provide market info for her planning =)
Conclusion is - still, 藏愛 is the best among all....!

As the very last stop, we checked "裕華" for Chinese dress.

There was a tailor corner and it costs HKD 2,900 simply for workmenship!!! Making a dress would cost HKD 3,xxx!!
Luckily, my size is quite standard and I was able to grap 1 dress (very fit!) after I got the jacket for Jin.
They are the trophies of today:


For JP photo shooting maybe? Then we will be able to get both JP style & CN style in our album...hehehe

Thanks again to Kate and hope she can take a good good rest tomorrow!